Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Dear Derby

I think we need to call it quits. It’s not me, it’s you. You used to be fun, accepting and really made me feel good about myself even though I’ve never been a skating goddess. It was about bonding with others, pushing our limits together, making a difference and having the time of our lives. We wanted the same things once. In fact, I totally supported you in your desire to be taken as a serious sport. I didn’t know you were going to become no fun at all in the process. I’ve noticed you’ve also gotten a mean streak and become judgy. In trying to be taken seriously, you’ve lost some of your most endearing qualities, namely your ability to give recognition to all those who support you, appreciate others talents no matter what they are (i.e. not always athleticism) and your ability to have fun.

Perhaps this is just a stage you’re going through. I hope that sometime soon we can be friends. I know that right now you are only interested in a full-on, full-time commitment verging on obsession and I’m not up for that. Perhaps as we spend time apart, we’ll find a way to be together again in a way that works for us both. In the mean time, try to stay away from those who will exploit you.

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